Relationships always start off so great in the beginning.
The chase is the best part. You text him/her constantly, ur heart skips beats everytime you get a text bcuz ur hoping it’s him/her that’s texting you, you go above and beyond when trying to do something for them, you go on dates all the the time, you go out to eat, you go watch movies, you take random trips, you just want to try so hard to impress him/her.
You finally get him/her. Everything is fine. Actually, everything seems PERFECT. You can’t get enough of each other. You go and see eachother ALL THE TIME, its JUST like how things were before.
As the relationship goes on, that’s when the REAL relationship starts. People tend to take the other for granted. You guys start texting less, talking less, and seeing eachother less because you’re both too busy now. You guys talk about it and ya, things are supposed to be fine now right? WRONG. Same shit will happen again, you guys talk it out, it changes for a bit and then same shit will happen again. It’s like a routine until one day one person can’t take it anymore and decides to break the entire routine.
The downfall. We all hate this part but it’s inevitable. No relationship will end PRETTY. There will be fighting and yelling, arguing and crying. Until finally. It’s OVER. We can never predict when it is over. But we can feel it. It’s like a you know when its gonna rain just by looking at the dark clouds moving in.
You move on. After every storm comes the sun. Time heals all wounds. You find a new hobby to take you mind off of it. You’re finally happy again. Remember this feeling. You don’t NEED to be in a relationship to be happy. You’ve lived you’re ENTIRE life just fine BEFORE you met him/her you most DEFINITELY can continue to live your life WITHOUT them in it. If they didn’t want you it’s not your problem it’s theirs. NEVER think you’re not good enough because it was HIM/HER that wasn’t good enough for YOU. So just remember to SMILE, LAUGH, LIVE & most of all, learn to LOVE again.
(Source: ch1nktast1c)
